So apparently we're just gonna go with churning out boys. Hubs only knows how to make XY chromosomes, not XX chromosomes. The news delivered last week first to me by the sonographer, then passed on to my children, my husband, and the rest of our family and friends was met with mixed reviews.
I loaded a cardboard box with blue balloons and let the boys open it.
Clayton was clearly ecstatic. He was "Team Boy" all the way. Another wrestle partner. WooooHoooo.
Esten looked like he'd just unwrapped a Christmas present with a dog turd in it. He scrunched up his nose and said, "NOOOO!"
Disappointment. Obviously. But I didn't really understand his angle. He clarified his upset was due to the "fact" that "girl babies won't eat Legos, but boy babies do".
He also insisted that I "try again for a do-over".
So I made them squish the balloons back in the box so we could surprise Daddy, and swore them to not only secrecy, but containing their emotion about it because we both knew the boys disagreed on their preference.
They helped him remove the ribbon, and once again the blue orbs lifted into the air. That's when I was really surprised by Jason's reaction.
"Are you SHITTING me?? ANOTHER boy? I thought we were gonna be done after this one, but now I'm thinking maybe we should try again for a girl."
Wait....WTF? Can we get one out before we go talking about the NEXT one???
I suppose it's the exact opposite of the conversations that happen in the Real Housewives of New Jersey home of Joe and Teresa Giudice.
|There's actually one MORE, and SHE's not a boy, either.|
That's a giant estrogen ticking timebomb.
The overwhelming majority (126%) of those with an opinion (everyone) had previously mentioned they were really pulling for this one to be a girl. It made the most sense, following our family's pattern of two boys, then a girl. I think there are many feeling a little sorry for me right now, having sealed my fate of being suffocated by the testosterone tornado tumbling around my house.
I fortunately don't see it that way. I honestly wasn't leaning one way or the other on this, perhaps because I have a habit in general life of not setting myself up for disappointment. We're somehow surrounded by other parents who have wanted to be surprised about their little one's gender until they're born, something I maintain is ridiculous given that I don't live in a cave in the 1400's. There's a REASON I'm having kids now....ultrasound, epidurals, disposable diapers, breast pumps that plug into my car's cigarette lighter (do they still call them that?), and society's spin on dads helping provide more care than in the past. I didn't care what this baby turned out to be, but I'm a planner and I wanted to know.
What will be a surprise is the name, which we'll keep under wraps until he makes his appearance, and to us, the surprise will be his personality. Given the opposite nature of his two big brothers, anything is possible. Until then, my hotdog factory will keep getting bigger, rounder, and heavier, and I'll get waddlier and more tired and it will all be worth it and the not-so-great things will be forgotten quickly. After all, it did last time, and that's probably why we're in this situation today.